To Sit and Do Nothing?

Yeah! That's something I forgot to put in my previous post.(Did you even notice it wasn't there or how I arrived at it?)

"To sit and do nothing". I really don't see why you should at anytime sit down and do nothing even when you are on top. Many people wish to be on top and are ready to bring down if you stay there doing nothing.

"To be on TOP prepare to STAY on TOP"

OVER AND OUT!
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This Folk-Tale and Other BIG BIG Words.

This God-knows-where-it-came-from folk-tale taught me great lessons this morning and I made up my mind to employ a whole new approach, not only to blogging but every other thing I find myself doing. This is the first seed.

The folk-tale goes thus,

A crow sat on a tree doing nothing...when a rabbit thought to do the same and sat on the ground, a tiger came and ate him.

THE END!

Moral: You need to be on TOP

I was able to figure out from this little story that :

1) Being on TOP does not necessarily mean being the best, but being in control of whatever you find your hands doing. In a more 'subtle' way, "keeping your shit together". This entails being able to identify Wђat exactly you want to achieve,taking the bulls that come your way by their horns and differentiating between constructive criticisms and shear hating.

This has taught me to be selfish as much as I'm self-less, approach every action with boldness and pay less attention to people who demoralise me by demeaning my efforts to becoming a better person and on the other hand, not to be distracted by those who shower on you, cheap flattery (its cheap when you praise without a proper appraisal).

Being in Control of whatever you do is the pathway to being the best at whatever you do.

2) Create your own unique style and create a niche for yourself with it. The crow is a bird and can fly. That makes the crow unique. Its easier for the crow to be on top of the tree, far away from the tiger just as it is easier for rabbit to run and hide in its hole, where the tiger can't reach. We are all unique one way or the other but we can't appreciate the uniqueness until we utilise it.

This has taught me that no matter how much I try to combine Wole Soyinka's vocabulary and Ikechukwu Ofili's sarcasm, I may never be as good a writer as Fisayo Eko-Davies (www.fisayomi.blogspot.com). However, there's an Adekunle Adesayo that you want to read in this blog that these very great people can't deliver and it will be great injustice to deny you of that. Same goes for every other area of my life too.

Please know that it is not that the rabbit can't climb up to the top of the tree, climbing up the tree is not just as unique for the rabbit as hiding in its hole. Thus, you achieve more being unique than trying to be someone else.

Along with these lessons, I considered the other big big words like CONSISTENCE,DILIGENCE,SELF-CONFIDENCE,METICULOUSNESS, INTEGRITY,ATTITUDE.... I really can't remember all and some I don't even know Wђat they mean but the break down of these words are ready to make a big difference in my life and maybe in yours too.

So no matter how small the folk-tale is or how big the word is, we can take out a lesson from every experience that comes our way.

OVER AND OUT!
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Wђat Came First? The Chicken or The Egg?

This is an example of a "circular question". It leads you round and round taking you nowhere. If such question eventually gets answered, you'll realise that it is rather irrelevant. In the instant case, it took scientists centuries to answer the chicken and egg dilemma and I am sure philosophers are still on the verge of answering this question. Funny enough, I really have not read till date, ђat the discovery of that answer has improved changed in the human race.

In our bid to finding better answers, we should stop asking rather irrelevant or circular questions. Circular questions will only place u on a rocking horse; you'll keep moving but it will take you nowhere. Rather we should ask questions that have direct relevance and importance to the object of our decision. Our questions should be less ambiguous and objective. Yes, objectivity too, because we tend to lay the questions we ask with sentiments in order to manipulate our answers.

By the way, any person who reads his or her holy book well won't have the problem of answering which came first between the chicken and the egg.

OVER AND OUT!!!
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ARE YOU ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS?

Hey! You finally stumbled on this blog ba? You're welcome.

Have you ever been amazed by the abundance of short-sightedness in the realm of decision making? Do you know making wise decisions is an ART? Unfortunately, this art is not taught in schools. To make matters worse, it has been discovered that if our parents lacked good decision making skills, it puts us at distinct disadvantage !

The first step to wise decision making is ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS.

In this age of information overload, there are too many opinions that only create more confusion, thus the need to hone our decision making skills and in doing this, the questions we ask should deserve some attention.

ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS IS A SKILL AND SHOULD BE LEARNT AND HARNESSED!!!

(Next 5 posts will treat 5 keys to finding better answers)

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QUOTE OF THE DAY!

PENCILS are made with ERASERS to give another chance, but the real logic is, the eraser on the pencil was made for you to remember that CHANCES are LIMITED!

OVER AND OUT

Its been long you saw me.

The last time I posted here was in July last year. I am so sorry for the long break. I am back and better now.

I am now a student of the Nigerian Law School, Augustine Nnamani Campus, Enugu State. Brace up and lets have a very good time together.